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What’s It All About Patty Comeford??


Much like before we’re relaunching our

LifeStyle Blog,

Celebrating Women Over 50 everywhere

So what exactly are we all about?


(‘Cause Fashion is changes but style endures…ask Coco)


(But of course)


(‘Cause stuff happens)


(‘Cause even more stuff happens)

Business & Customer Loyalty

(‘Cause dreams and customer service matter)


(‘Cause books are everything)

Family & Friendship

(‘Cause they make life rich)

Spirituality & Faith

(‘Cause that’s what really matters)

Advice on Getting Unstuck

(‘Cause I wrote a book about that very issue:

Lessons From A Headhunter With Heart)

and, of course…


So, pretty much everything.

I promise that it’ll be loaded with Fun too!


Patty Comeford

(‘Cause I’m Fun!)

Make A Statement- Statement Necklaces
Fashion Fashion and Style

Make A Statement: Statement Necklaces

Statement jewelry is easily one of the hottest treds right now because of the ease in which these pieces allow us to pull an outfit together. Whether you”re looking at bling for your arms and hands, a chunky ankle bracelet or even something to wear in your hair, statement jewelry is one area you can’t go wrong in. In fact, one of the questions that I get asked about all the time is how to spice up an outfit using statement jewelry. Today, I am going to answer that question by spotlighting one of my favorite, affordable ways to do just that.


What’s so great about statement jewelry is that just about everyone carries it now. Target, Jcrew, Anthropologie, Amazon, major designers they’ve all gotten into the act making it affordable for everyone.  Not only can you find these beautiful pieces just about anywhere but you can get them on a budget and still look like a million bucks!

Here are two of my ways to wear them:

The T-shirt: This is one of my favorites. I love it because the look is clean and the statement necklace does exactly what it’s supposed to. I don’t care if it’s a crew neck or a v-neck t-shirt.  Statement necklaces look great. When pairing your necklace (or other  jewelry) with a tshirt, be sure you are using pieces that are low on the bling but high on style. One of my favorite, casual looks is a pair of denim shorts or capris with a neutral colored tee and major pops of color.

Over a simple white blouse: White blouses are my favorite (if you can keep them clean) and adding a statement necklace just sets it off beautifully. Here you can add some bling if you would like. Add a blazer or a chic cardigan and you look pulled together. This look is the epitome of business chic. Another fun way to spice up this look is to have your shoes that match your necklace.

So which necklaces should you choose? Here are three of my favorites that you absolutely cannot go wrong with:

Women Lady Fashion Crystal Leaves Rhinestone Statement Bib Necklace

Statement Necklace - Amazon 1


Two-Tone Painted Chain Necklace

Statement Necklace - Amazon 2


Rhinestone Crystal Reasin Flower Statement Fashion Necklace

Statement Necklace - Amazon 3


Do you have a favorite piece of jewelry? What’s your favorite way to pair amazing statement pieces with your favorite outfits?

Until next time,



Fashion Fashion and Style

The One Style Item I Cannot Live Without

Tanks aren’t something I have really touched on here on the YNS blog. I have talked a lot about style, fashion (yes, there’s a difference) and the various shops, items, etc. that I own and wear. As I was preparing for this post on using stripes in fashion I realized that I had yet to share my favorite piece of fashion with you all. Now, when I say “favorite” I mean favorite as in I wear these all the time and they compliment absolutely every look you could imagine. Trust me when I say that there are, quite literally, a hundred ways to wear this piece.

So what is it, you may be asking. Well folks it’s probably not what you think it is. The one piece of my wardrobe that gets the most wear and that I call my favorite is the Bordeaux Seamless Tank found here on Amazon! (The picture doesn’t do it justice.)

Bordeaux Tanks

So why do I love this simple tank so much? A few reasons:

1 | The fabric is the perfect weight (not flimsy), hold its shape, hugs you in and it’s as seamless as it looks. This means that no matter how you wear it, you’ll never see (or worse, feel) any seams along the front, back or sides. Seamless is a huge win because I am so not a fan of the unflattering lines left by any clothing item with obvious seams.

2 | The Bordeaux Tank comes in so many color options that you could wear a different tank every day for a year and never run out of options.

3 | There are just so many ways to wear this tank! The most obvious way is as the above photo shows, by itself paired with some shorts or pants for a casual chic look or you can dress it up under blazers, dusters or layered under a sheer top. This tank is seriously so universal that you will never want to own any others.

4 | When washing, they come out silky smooth; however, I recommend not putting it in the dryer as they do shrink. They dry quickly!

As you can see, I can’t speak highly enough of these tanks, I own them in every color and wear one practically every day!

Do you have a favorite tank or are you on the prowl looking to add this much needed fashion item to your own wardrobe? Leave me a comment here and share your own favorites so I can check them out too!







*Disclaimer: Some posts contain affiliate links. Though I may earn a small income should my readers choose to purchase through the links I share, all opinions, reviews and product evaluations are my own. – Patty

Fashion Fashion and Style

From Bland to Glam with just One Accessory

Scarves are one accessory no women should be without. Whether they are keeping you warm or taking your look from day to night, a scarf is the obvious choice for maximum style. Maximizing your fashion and style with one simple trick can save you loads of time but also ensure that you are passing off a polished and finished look.

If you have been coming around YNS for awhile, I am sure you’ve noticed that I like to include a scarf in my outfits or even just as photo props. I have so many that there is rarely a time I am lost for which one to pair with my daily outfits. I also have several that are “night only” scarves, meaning that I wear them to glam up my nightly ensemble.

Since I love scarves so much I thought I would put a spotlight on them today and show you a few different ways you can accessorize your look with just a simple scarf.

Way To Wear Scarves #1: To Keep You Warm

Way to wear scarves #1: to keep you warm

I love these looks because they are staying in style while not sacrificing their warmth to the fashion gods. It’s easy enough to match a thick wool scarf to any outfit in the fall or winter and still come out looking chic.

Way To Wear Scarves #2: As Clothing

Way to wear scarves #2 as clothing

I adore this idea simply because it’s unique and yet still manages to bring a major “POP” quality to your outfit. If you plan on trying this, however, I definitely recommend going with a scarf that I thick enough to not show through but also stylish enough to make you stand out.

Way To Wear Scarves #3: As An Accessory

way to wear scarves 3 as an accessory

Old Hollywood made this look classic and we all know that classic never goes out of style. How many celebs have we seen walking around using this 1940’s iconic look every day? Exactly! And there’s no reason you can’t dress like a boss and still have a splash of starlet glam too!

As you can see here, the possibility of how to go from bland to glam with just one accessory is endless.

How do you style your scarves? Do you have a style accessory that is used just to add some glam to your look? Leave me a comment here so I can get a look at your style too!


The Benefits of a Capsule Wardrobe
Clothes Fashion and Style

The Benefits of a Capsule Wardrobe

Wardrobes of any kind are a place that I could lose myself in with glee. Whether it’s full of cashmere or every day wears, there is something magical about a wardrobe.  Seeing fibers and patterns, pops of color just fill me with joy and I absolutely love a wardrobe that has been put together well.

Lately, capsule wardrobes are all over my Facebook feed, my Pinterest page and I am even seeing great posts on this minimalist approach to clothing on Twitter! While I do believe there is nothing quite as stunning to the eye as a wardrobe overflowing with fine fabrics in every style, the idea of a capsule wardrobe is growing on me. With that in mind, I thought today I would touch on some of the many benefits to owning a capsule wardrobe and even hand you some tools to start your own today!

3 Benefits To Capsule Wardrobes:

Benefits of capsule wardrobes on yns

1 | You never really run out of things to wear!

Honestly, it’s true. Although you would think that owning less would cause you too have less to wear, the reality is that you have more because you can create so many different outfits based around one top or one hat. Keeping this simple does it actually mean that you are limiting yourself. It means you will be able to use your imagination to expand what you already have.

2| You can mix and match everything you own and create a constant flow of outfits.

When you start the purge and decide to go minimalist you will be forced to find your personal style. Not only is your personal style a reflection of who you are but it is also a way of allowing your personality to shine through your clothes. If you are a person who doesn’t shy from color, consider pairing your wardrobe down to neutral tones and making them pop with lemon yellow wedges or a neon patterned scarf. The possibilities are endless when you start with a clean palette.

3 | Shopping expenses will go way down, allowing you to spend more on quality rather than over spend on quantity.

How many times have you sworn that you were not going to buy any new clothes this month and then wound up with around six new tops and four new pairs of pants – that you have not even worn! It happens to the best of us. The trick is to keep the above mentioned “personal style” in the front of your mind when you are out and about and have no intention to shop for yourself. This way you will never make another fashion buying mistake again and you will always look fashionable, in style and well put together.

With these three key benefits in mind, I have created a handy printable for you to use when deciding if a capsule wardrobe is right for you! Head on over here to print it out and get to work on creating the perfect capsule wardrobe to fit your life and style today!

Still not sure where to start? My Pinterest. Closets To Die For,  board can help get you inspired!

Now tell me: Have you seen all the capsule wardrobe goodness going around? What do you think? Leave me a comment to your own post (if you have one) or just leave your own thoughts below and let’s start a conversation about additional benefits to owning a capsule wardrobe!

See you soon!


My Favorite New Cashmere Brand
Fashion Fashion and Style

My Favorite New Cashmere Brand

Cashmere. Who doesn’t adore it? I sure do. I have a few different brands of cashmere in my closet but I recently found a new brand and today I’m collaborating with them.

Meet The Cashmere Queen: 

Catherine Robinson Cashmere

Catherine Robinson is headquartered in the UK but sells worldwide on her lovely website. Her cashmere is made in Mongolia (known worldwide as the “Land of Blue Sky) and I have to say the quality is unparalleled and just plain yummy.

They carry cashmere wraps, capes, sweaters, scarfs, snoods, leg warmers, gloves and socks. I think that qualifies them as a cashmere expert! The colors are muted colors perfect for every day; vintage rose, ivory, soft greys, pinks and blues. Catherine’s idea is to compliment the buyer’s  skin tone and add a soft glow to brighten one’s complexion. I say, “I’ll take one of each!”

If you are a regular reader of youreneverstuck.com, you know I love companies that take the time to present their products with care.  And that’s exactly what Catherine Robinson does. It arrives as a true gift. In fact, it’s like getting a warm hug! Here’s how it came:

Catherine Robinson Cashmere Unboxing

It was even  beautifully wrapped in tissue together with a cameo infused with Catherine’s signature scent, Grace.  So elegant!

What I loved most about the beautiful pink wrap they sent me is that it’s HUGE, making it a great value.  Unlike other brands, they don’t skimp in the least bit. This will be one of my favorite pieces for travel on a chilly airplane. Here I am showing it off in all its splendor:



So go check out Catherine Robinson’s beautiful cashmere. You will be glad you did. And me? I’m ready to order their beautiful duster!

Catherine Robinson Cashmere Duster

A bit of background directly from Catherine:

I was approaching my 50th birthday, my daughter had left home my husband had sold his business and I thought it was the right time for me to venture into something new!

I have a public relations background and a love of style and of course cashmere and thought I’d have a go at setting up my own business.

I originally sourced my cashmere from Nepal but I wasn’t happy with the quality and the professionalism of the company and found this wonderful established company in Mongolia who are a delight to communicate and work with.  I work closely with the team there on my designs.

My business in the last 5 years has grown enormously and I’m so excited about all my new designs and ideas to increase my brand awareness….I’m venturing into cashmere for gentlemen later this year.  

Maybe the loveliest thing is doing it all at the age I am now; it feels like I’m having a second chance at things and I’m absolutely adoring it…it’s fair to say cashmere is a passion of mine!

Is she not just amazing? I’m definitely happy to have been able to connect with Catherine on a professional level and I just know you, my readers, will love her products as much as I do.





*Disclaimer: Some posts contain affiliate links. Though I may earn a small income should my readers choose to purchase through the links I share, all opinions, reviews and product evaluations are my own. – Patty

Fashion and Style

UP! Pants – A Review

About: Up! Pants Montréal

Ladies, ladies, ladies. Have I got a little gem for you! Up! Pants recently asked me to do a review of their pants and today’s the day!

Background: For over 30 years Sam Zucker has been manufacturing well-known pull-on pant brands in Montréal, Canada for various labels.  After decades of creating and designing for others, Up! Pants Montréal launched its innovative collection of fashionable, flattering, and affordable pull-on pants.

My Review:

Think active wear meets dress casual. I have to confess that I was a little worried when I read they were “pull on” style; I kept thinking of granny pants. But let me assure you that’s not the case. They are attractive and fabric looks expensive. This new trend is called “atheleisure” and it’s designed specifically to get you through every part of your day. While I would not wear these to work out (read on), atheleisure is a God send!

Patty - UP Pants Review - Black Back

Patty - UP Pants Review - Black Front

Patty - UP Pants Review - White Front

And can you say comfortable or what? When I wear UP! I’m as comfortable as when I’m wearing yoga pants except that they look dressy!   Unlike yoga pants however, these legs are roomy;  I certainly didn’t feel as if I was wearing workout clothes.

Apparently Up! Pants have what the company calls the Thincredible™ fit designed to make you feel thin and confident. I must say that’s exactly how I felt wearing them. The pants have tummy-control features and hip-slimming fabrics and a wide seam down the side which dresses them up. The elastic waistband is designed with “give” to slim a woman’s midsection and the built-in front panel minimizes any muffin top. How awesome is that?

But the bonus? They  are machine washable – no dry cleaning! I can’t wait to take these babies traveling; they will be perfect.


I found them to be generously cut (another bonus and smart marketing-who wants to ever size up?)  If you are in between sizes like me, you might want to size down. The various pant designs run from $110-$165 and are available for purchase at fine boutiques across the country and in Canada. To find a store near you visit www.uppantsmontreal.com





*Disclaimer: Some posts contain affiliate links. Though I may earn a small income should my readers choose to purchase through the links I share, all opinions, reviews and product evaluations are truly my own. – Patty

Patricia Green

Exciting News for YNS (and YOU!)

News! I love being able to tell you that I have news. Lots of news in fact! News you’ll just have to read on to find out about!

Remember on March 9th I released a spotlight post that centered around Patricia Green Shoes? What I didn’t say in that post is that Patricia and I were working together on a new project that is going to be a major game changer here at YNS. You see, I fell in love with Patricia Green Shoes early on in life and have been just dying to meet her. So in March, I did just that. I visited her headquarters in Palm Springs!

In the midst of all our business, life and fashion talk, Patricia and I really connected both as women and as professionals which only made me all the more eager to collaborate with her on a much larger scale.

So after talking and emailing and lunch meetings, I can finally announce my big news!

Fashion and Style

Where to find that something special: Secret Shops

Secret shops are my secret weapon. Without them I would likely never have a gift or that something fabulous. A wedding. A reunion. A Black tie event. Sometimes, you have that special occasion such and you just want something extra special or unique. You go to the mall and everything looks the same and who wants to wear what everyone else is wearing?  So today I thought I’d share a few great and often unknown special online shops to find that special outfit:

Fashion and Style

V is for Veronica

Dickeys aren’t just old fashioned accessories your grandmother wore.

Oh, how I love a great blazer! I wear them all the time especially over jeans (and even leggings) and they always seem to finish off an outfit.  After I sold my staffing company, I stopped wearing them for a while as I thought they were too office oriented. But now, they are back as staple in my wardrobe.

So today, I’m sharing one of my absolute favorite blazer brands. And for those of you that travel frequently for work or pleasure, you are going to love this:


I first learned of it while shopping at one of my favorite St Helena California shops, Pearl Wonderful. Pearl Wonderful found this brand before just about everyone and now many stores have followed suit and  are carrying the Victoria Beard brand. So why do I love this brand?

Well, first and foremost it’s genius. You see, Ms. Beard has turned one blazer into several. She’s done it by bringing back the dickey! The dickey? Yes, she’s created a blazer where you can zip in various types of lapels (“dickeys”) to change the look of the blazer . The dickeys come in leather, cameo, hoodies, stripes, quilted down, fisherman wool–the list is endless and growing.


So when you travel, instead of taking more than one jacket, you can just bring the zip-ins and voilá , you now have several different looks This one being my go to:

My Favorite Dickey

Here I am in the same Veronica  Beard jacket with a few different dickeys–one with a hood and one with leather:

Dickies Dickies


How’s that for a clever multi-functional brand!

 A few weeks ago I was lucky enough to do a private photo shoot in one of my very favorite stores with Carolyn Cantor, executive sales professional at Ralph Lauren at the Biltmore Fashion Park in Phoenix, Arizona. It was a dream come true!

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